Why Man Less Talk Than Woman?

Last Updated on Wednesday, 16 June 2010 01:17 Written by putra Wednesday, 16 June 2010 01:17

What do you notice when men and women are communicating or may be in a fight? If you want to compare, the man will be much less talk, more listening and silent than women. Why?

In addition, because it’s the nature of men, they admitted that they were more rarely talk because they were dominated by women. Men become rare to speak for not given a chance to speak.

Nothing to beat women in matters of speech. Women are good communicators, especially when they communicate with other women.

No wonder if she feels the man is not a good friend to communicate because of a creature called man simply can not be equated with women. Even one of the five women admitted that they quarreled with him because he deems not good at communicating.

Women use their feelings when speaking. From those feelings can come out thousands of the language used to express what she has in mind.

Unlike women, men do more and do something rather than talking. Men feel more comfortable with action rather than feelings.

Quoted from Huffingtonpost, a man illustrates his life as a list of natural health care tasks. “For me, life is an activity to create a checklist of tasks to be done, without the need of many words,” he said.

In a book called Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, John Gray, the author of the book, saying that men and women are from different planets and have different communication techniques.

One health care information theory put forward by John Gray, said that women often complain and talk about her problems because they want to be heard and given attention, not to be given advice. But the man on the contrary, they tell the problem to be a solution.

Other health care differences that John writes in his health information book is about how men and women faced with a situation, especially under pressure.

According to John, if the man is in trouble, he will tend to pull out or ‘go into hiding in a cave’, in contrast to women who will talk more when you’re in trouble.

When he did that, the woman would felt surprised and thought he should do something about it, even though the woman did not know what he would do would only be a problem. Men just need a peace to overcome the problem.

Women and men do have their own way of communicating. Understand, but do not have to make it a problem. Would not life be wonderful because there are differences?