Oral Sex Advice

Last Updated on Tuesday, 5 January 2010 12:56 Written by Natural Health Team Tuesday, 5 January 2010 12:56

Oral sex is sometimes a taboo, and a lot of women have negative feelings towards it. Either because they’re not good at it – or they don’t want to give their man head at all (poor guy) because they think he doesn’t deserve it and it’s not “fare” if he’s the only one that’s getting pleasure out of it.

That’s all nice but this kind of thinking won’t get you far in life. Especially not with real men. Real, quality men want a real, sexual women that’s connected to her sexuality. Oral sex is very important for the functioning of a good relationship. It’s fundamental, belive it or not. Most women don’t know how to give head – but they can easily learn as long as they’re willing to put in some effort into learning the how, why, what and where of oral sex. Once you get get good at it – you’ll naturally enjoy it a lot more, and enjoying it is a key factor.

Oral Sex Tip #1

First of all, if you’re not already maintaining eye contact during oral sex – start doing it. You don’t have to stare at him endlessly, just look up in a seductive way from time to time so he sees you’re enjoying it. Eye contact is not just for his enjoyement. Look at him to figure out his reaction to “your moves”. Most guys like the same stuff, but at the same time every guy is a bit different – look and later on ask for feedback (which most guys will happily give you if you ask and make him comfortable about it), once you get some feedback, try adjusting your techniques.

Oral Sex Tip #2

Act naughtier. Guys want you to be seductive while you give head. It’s all a show – put up a performance, be creative, experiment and forget about failure. You have to start somewhere… get familiar with his body and get comfortable. Comfort is essential for both of you. Over time you’ll see it’s more a mental than a physical thing.

Your blow job instructor, Jack

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