Men looking for older woman for fun, not love?

Last Updated on Sunday, 1 August 2010 08:22 Written by putra Thursday, 15 July 2010 03:58

What if a man falls in love with a woman who is more worthy to be his mother than his lover? The natural health researchers suggest that a young man who is paired with a mature woman just looking for fun only, not love.

Former Indonesian president, Sukarno and his second wife, Inggit Garnasih is an example of old couples who differ greatly, namely 13 years. Meanwhile, in Hollywood circles, different age of Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher reach 15 years. Hollywood actress Elizabeth Taylor’s senior married Larry Fortensky ever whose age was 20 years younger, despite his marriage only lasted five years.

In America, there is a teenager who is paired with a more suitable woman to be her mother. Darin Riggio (19 years) had a dating experience with a 43-year-old woman. Reason Riggio in dating women his mother’s age was only to seek pleasure.

“Women who are still with my age usually do not mature, do not know what I want and too much in dramatizing the situation. They also do not have much experience of women who like older. But in terms of marriage, I prefer a woman who is a little different age and do not want a woman who was old. I’m only dating them for fun, “Riggio said, as quoted from Thirdage’s health care information.

Relationship and sex experts say, women today do tend to look for a younger male partners. In the website Premier Match matchmaker services for example, there is an increasing demand for young men from the women elders.

If earlier they want men between the ages of 45 to 60 years, now they want men aged 35 to 50 years. But unfortunately, for men, they are objects of pleasure alone, the relationship that they rarely survive for a long time.

According to population census in America in 2008, women 10-14 years older than her husband’s only about 1 percent. Meanwhile, another 2.6 percent, over 6-9 years old. “Most men who marry older women is because she still looks beautiful at the mature age and older,” says Debbie Then, a psychologist from California.

As for women, paired with young men would be more fun and full of adventure. “It was like a trip to an exotic island. As young again and full of energy. A man with my age probably could no longer be like that,” said one middle-aged women.

But couples with age difference too much will face problems when it comes to children and confidence. Sex expert, Evan Marc Katz said, other than due to physical factors that are still beautiful, why young men choose older woman as his running mate, is to avoid the pressure of the biological clock. “Men do not need to take care of the children because it is considered an adult so that he and his wife can be alone or vacation in peace,” said Katz.

“It’s more on the problem of energy and vitality. Old woman is more confident, and strong personality. Age is not important to me, the important thing is personal,” said Raymond Michaels (23 years) who is married to wife Jennifer (41 years).

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