In order for men to wear condoms

Last Updated on Sunday, 1 August 2010 08:09 Written by putra Saturday, 24 July 2010 02:45

Many men refuse to use condoms for reasons of discomfort and so forth. Whereas women’s goal is to persuade men to use condoms to prevent transmission of sexually transmitted infections.

According to American psychologists, men actually want to use condoms if offered to him the right strategy. What strategy?

When going to have sex, many women who dilemma because her partner did not want to wear a condom. Yet women also have a right to protect themselves from the risk of sexually transmitted diseases like herpes, Trichomoniasis, chlamydia, HPV, HIV and so forth.

According to Dr. Michelle Broaddus from the Medical College of Wisconsin, United States, men actually want to use a condom if the woman could make him compromise and negotiation with good.

“If the woman asked in a subtle, somewhat erotic, seductive and interspersed with jokes, he’d want to use it. But if a woman asks in a rude, yelling, threatening and patronizing, he would refuse,” said Dr. Broaddus is quoted from ScienceDaily.

Each year, an estimated 19 million new cases of sexually transmitted infections in the United States. Nearly half occurred in the young couple under the age of 25 years. One cause of the high number is, low condom use, mainly because men are lazy to use a condom.

Dr. Broaddus and his colleagues have conducted a study on the effects of women’s approach to negotiation and condom use in men. Their study, published in the journal Sex Roles that reported results of a survey of 193 participants in pairs.

Researchers analyzed several strategies and approaches that are performed against a pair of men to women willing to use condoms. Strategies include:

1. Explaining techniques, namely women explained to him about the dangers of sexually transmitted diseases and what would happen if you do not use condoms.
2. Threatening techniques, which threatens the woman did not want to do and provide sexual services if the male partner did not want to use condoms.
3. Erotic techniques, namely women’s sensual approach and said that he would feel very sexy and really enjoyed sex if her male partner wear a condom.

Male participants were then asked about the perception by researchers that some women strategy. Based on the results of the survey, male participants claimed to be more interested and enjoyed to use a condom if the woman offer an erotic technique instead of using the technique of explanation let alone a threat.

“This study shows that with the approach and the appropriate negotiation strategy, he can be invited to a compromise to be willing to use condoms. Effective communication between partners can lead to safer sex practices and reduce the risk of sexually transmitted disease infection,” said Dr. Broaddus.

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